What do you want to do when you grow up?
I always felt like a weirdo growing up because I didn’t know what I wanted to do for a career. My friend’s knew they wanted to be nurses, teachers, lawyers, engineers, dentists, etc… and all of my fiends who had those intentions when they were 12-17 made those careers happen for themselves. It is actually amazing to see them all achieve their goals that they set when they were young.
When someone asked me what I wanted to do when I grew up I would always say “I don’t know”. I was the only one in my friends group that seemed to have a question mark on this topic.
Since I began working I have done all of the following:
– Commissioned Sales
– Office Managing for a financial advisor
– Medical billing for a Chiro office
– Receptionist
– Recruiter
– Spiritual Counselor
– Seamstress
– Business owner (selling handmade fabric goods)
– Mother
– Sales Admin
– Writer (press releases and such)
– Consultant/coach
– And now I am the Admissions Director at a private Preschool/Elementary school
In each of these jobs I had things that I loved to do. Most of these jobs were a JOY to do even though they are quite varied.
I don’t feel like any one job has ever defined me. Most of my jobs came from people observing that I liked to work and had certain aptitudes and they reached out to me to recruit me for a specific position.
Once in High School a teacher went around the class and had everyone say what they wanted to do when they grew up. I said “I want to do something where I can continue learning all the time, I really enjoy research”. And she did NOT like that answer. Lol. She wanted a simple name of a profession. I didn’t have one, and I didn’t have a plan for my adult work life.
At this point in my life I know that there are things I love.
– Learning
– Helping people
– Reading/Research
– Helping to solve problems and troubleshoot systems
– Writing
– Goal setting (and working back through the sub-products to make that goal happen)
– Working with people
These things that I enjoy doing were a part of every job I have done!!
If you don’t know what you want to do with your life, or you have a kid who doesn’t know, it is ok.
They will find their way.